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Protect the Gift(s)
Know Who to Ask & How to Ask

Life is hard. This card teaches the basics of the law, your rights, and how to find and safely use a professional — a lawyer, a contractor, an agency, a bank — plus how to get good help for free, cheap, or from a law school clinic. Learn It, Practice It, Live It, Share It.

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🆓 Free & Low-Cost Help — Keep This List

Legal AidFree civil legal help if you have a low income. Find your local office at LawHelp.org or call 211.
Law School ClinicsLaw students (supervised by professors) handle real cases free. Search "[your state] law school clinic."
Bar Association ReferralYour state/county bar offers low-cost first consults (often $25–$50 for 30 min).
211 / United WayDial 211 for housing, utilities, food, and crisis help in your area.
CFPBFile complaints about banks, credit cards, loans, and debt collectors at consumerfinance.gov.
Self-Help Court CenterMany courthouses have free clerks/centers to help you fill out forms.
Heads up: This card teaches general basics for learning and discussion. It is not legal, financial, or tax advice, and laws and rights vary by state and situation. For a real problem, talk to a licensed lawyer or qualified professional — and use the free/low-cost options above if money is tight.
Teens → Adults (all ages) 60–90 min Life Skills / Self-Advocacy Adulting Bingo
Explain basic legal rights and where to find trustworthy help for a legal or money problem.
Demonstrate safe, calm behavior in high-stakes encounters (a traffic stop, a high-pressure sale, signing a contract).
Compare the true cost of "easy" credit, car loans, and check-cashing against safer alternatives.
Locate free or low-cost professionals — legal aid, law school clinics, bar referral, and government agencies.
🎣 Hook 5 min
Ask the room: "What's an adult problem nobody taught you how to handle?" Collect answers (a ticket, a lease, a leaking roof, a surprise bank fee). Point out: the skill isn't knowing everything — it's knowing who to ask and how to ask safely.
📖 Framing 8 min
Introduce "Protect the Gift(s)" — your rights, your money, your home, and your good name are gifts worth protecting. Walk through the four tabs: Learn (the basics), Practice (a real scenario), Live (do one thing this week), Share (pass it on).
🎮 Gameplay 35 min
Round 1 (15 min): each person completes the Learn quiz on 4+ squares. Round 2 (15 min): run the Practice simulations for the traffic stop, car loan, and signing a contract together as a group and debate the choices. Round 3 (5 min): pick one Live It action to actually do this week.
💬 Debrief 15 min
1. Which "easy" offer is most dangerous and why? 2. What do you say (and not say) at a traffic stop? 3. Name two ways to get a lawyer for free or cheap. 4. What's one thing you should always do before signing anything?
🔗 Extensions 5 min
Build your own "Help List": local legal aid, 211, your bank's fraud line, and the nearest law school clinic. Role-play a tough phone call. Bring in a guest from legal aid or a credit union.
Standards Alignment ISTE 1.3 Knowledge Constructor NHES 3 Accessing Resources NHES 5 Decision Making NHES 8 Advocacy CASEL: Responsible Decision-Making Financial Literacy (Jump$tart)

Keep it practical and non-shaming. Many learners have already been burned by a bad loan, a missed court date, or a scam. Frame mistakes as normal and fixable — the point is what to do next time.

Safety first on the traffic-stop square. Emphasize staying calm, keeping hands visible, and that you can be polite and still protect your rights. Avoid politics; focus on going home safe and handling problems later, the legal way.

This is not legal advice. Remind learners that laws vary by state. The win is knowing the right question and the right door to knock on — then getting real help.